Rubii Jiin
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Age : 36
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 |  Subject: WHEN HE'S THE ONE  Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:02 pm | |
| A forwarded text message touched my senses when it was sent to me as it reads:
“If we really are in love, we hardly find any reason to justify our feelings. We’re dumbfounded as realization begins to strike our minds. Love was never like “I prefer my woman to be like this” and “I prefer my man to be like that.” Preferences can change. You would just find yourself caring for that person no matter who he is or what she was before. It’s hard to explain but it is true, that when it comes to loving, there are no boundaries, no yardsticks and no reasons to hear why we love that person. That’s life, that’s love.”
The message reminded me of the person I am in a relationship with - our commitment and the years we've been through.
It is not easy to fight for the person, who, the majority believes, doesn't deserve to have you. It is much more hurting when what they say is always contrary to what you feel. At some instances, it leads you to give up, but oftentimes teaches you to love the person more.
One of the hardest thing to consider is to hurt other people hoping and expecting something you cannot totally give, when all you mean is choosing to stay with the person who completes your life. It's the most difficult feeling to be dumped and condemned jst because you insist to be with the person who makes you happy.
There's no guarantee when it comes to loving, but making the decision to fight for the person is the greatest sacrifice you can make when the relationship is really worth saving for.
It is a reality that there are things in life that we cannot control and we cannot hold on forever, no matter how much we fight for it. Taking the risk is all part of the playful destiny.
Entering into relationship involves preparation and acceptance when ending is not as happy as what we usually expect them to be - when the person who we taught is destined for us, wasn't really meant to stay but only destined to make us fall in love and leave us when we've already fallen.
Both faces of love, its beauty and consequences, can cause tears and joy, happiness and hurts, hopes and dreams, success and failures, lessons and regrets - mixtures of the bittersweet taste of loving.
To have a relationship against all odds would mean that the situation gets harder as each day passes by. As the years grow older, circumstances turn the lovers apart. When asked for the reason why, no word could ever fit and tell why they firmly stand for the commitment.
When you find the person who you love despite the criticisms and discouragements, then most probably, he's the one - the person who can make you smile through storms, and comfort you 'til sundown. There's no right person when the real one comes along. Like the oaks that grow strong in contrary winds, and diamonds made under pressure, it is the love that keeps the relationship going on.
and it happens that things were not really meant for us, as many people say, still there is no regret.
I'm thankful that we've once loved and value each other in a much wonderful way.
No regrets.. 'cause it's one of the greatest pains in life to let go of a true love that passes only once in our way.[img]  [/img] | |
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