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| Subject: MOVING ON TIPS Sun Jan 30, 2011 1:03 am | |
| * Friends = Free Therapists! Talk about how you're feeling and allow them to comfort you and offer you advice. * Don't make excuses to see them or call them. Just let go, no matter how much it hurts. * Avoid your EX phone calls or tell them not to call you anymore. * When you hear a song on the radio that reminds you of them, turn the station immediately and think of something else * Delete your EX from address book, or cell phone. You shouldn't look at their number daily, and you really shouldn't use it. * Clear your mind of all negative feelings to help you slowly let go of any lingering bitterness * Cry as much as you can, until you get bored and realized why waste time with crying. * Consider all the possible reasons why the relationship has ended, and you'll have more acceptable understanding. * Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate. Put away pictures, gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex. * Go out and have fun. Don't stay home and sulk, as it will only make you feel more miserable. * Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. * Keep Busy. When you exercise you release endorphins in your body and releasing those endorphins makes you feel happier. * If you know your EX passwords (Facebook/Twitter), resist the temptation to go into their acc. It will make the pain worse! * Stop talking about what happened, it makes moving on even harder. The key to getting over a break up: learn and then move on. * Every day when you get up tell your self that “I am able to be happy with or without (your EX name) in my life. * Try to dispose everything that reminds you of your EX. Remove his favorite song, and replace it with yours. * Don't scramble back to your EX, professing your love, trying to reignite a snuffed flame simply because your ego is bruised. * Your ex turned your heart to stone? Change this by opening your heart to others. Make "connections! * Channel all of your energy into positive activities that make you feel good about yourself. * Don't lie in bed feeling miserable. Get up, go about your daily life. It will help you get your mind off the breakup. * If you really want to work on how to get over a break up, give yourself enough time and space to deal with the situation. * Do something quiet and relaxing to help you feel better. Maybe you want to take a hot bath, or read a book. That's fine! * Call you friend, call your Mom, do whatever you have to. Getting over an ex means not getting set back by stupid mistakes. * Stop talking about what happened, it makes moving on even harder. The key to getting over a break up: learn and then move on. * The first step in getting over a broken relationship: Acknowledge and accept that the relationship is over. * Accept the past for what it was. The past is the past. You are in this present moment and have a future to live for.
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Posts : 288 Join date : 01/12/2010 Age : 34 Location : Laguna
| Subject: Re: MOVING ON TIPS Sat Feb 19, 2011 3:29 pm | |
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